By Jessica Selva
For The Signal
Saugus resident Tom Bolewski
speaks of his hope to one day ride his bicycle again. The
6-foot-1, 48-year-old former competitive cyclist and motorcycle
rider also talks about what he'll eat as soon as he recovers - a
Carl's Jr. Six-dollar Burger.
Although he is limited to his
wheelchair and can only eat soft foods like scrambled eggs and
banana bread for now, Bolewski, who became a quadriplegic after
a dirt bike accident earlier this year, remains optimistic. As a
longtime member of a bicycling group called the Santa Clarita
Velo and a lover of other sports from dirt bike riding to snow
and water skiing, Bolewski sees his recovery as just another
finish line.
"I'm just going to put as much
effort as I can into rehabilitating and just hoping for the
best," he said.
He is not yet back on his bike or
eating his favorite fast food, but he has come a long way in the
past four and a half months, mostly of which has been spent at
various hospitals. Just a couple of months ago Bolewski relied
on a ventilator to breathe and was fed through a tube.
Since January the Bolewski family
has been on a roller coaster ride of emotions, hearing different
things from various doctors about Bolewski's future.
"They told me he'd be in a
wheelchair, drinking with a straw," said Bolewski's wife, Kim.
"They told me he'd be on a ventilator forever. They told me he'd
have brain damage...
"We've had doctors saying that
there is a possibility that Tom can walk someday... It depends
on the doctor you talk to. So, we decide to listen to the people
who think positively."
Bolewski is now off of the
ventilator. He has slight movement in his hands and arms and can
use them to maneuver his wheelchair and use a computer mouse. On
his second day home from the hospital in late May, he moved the
big toe on his left foot and then the other toes, even though he
had not shown movement in that foot while at Rancho Los Amigos
National Rehabilitation Center in Downey. He already had some
movement in his right foot.
"What we have come to find is it
seems that it depends not only on the injury and on your body,
but mostly on your drive and your... motivation," Kim Bolewski
said.
A former electrician and a Santa
Clarita business owner, Bolewski said one of his major
motivations comes from the support of the community, which
banded together after his accident in a way he and his family
had never expected. Since his injury friends, neighbors and
strangers have raised thousands of dollars for him.
It all started after Jan. 20, when
Bolewski's life changed in a split-second.
The accident
While in the middle of a yoga
class in Glendale in January, Kim Bolewski received a message on
her cell phone from her sister, Carrie Porter, informing her
that Tom was badly injured.
Bolewski and two of his sons,
Danny, 18, and Alex, 16, had joined family members and friends
to ride dirt bikes at a camp site in California City in Kern
County. His son Christopher, 20, was not with them.
Kim Bolewski remembers her sister
saying that he was still breathing and was being transported to
a hospital. Kim could tell it was serious.
"I knew it. I folded like a wet
paper towel," she said. "I folded right down to the floor. I
just knew it."
Bolewski had hit a rock while
riding his Honda CRF450R motocross dirt bike, which sent him
flying over his handlebars. He landed about 10 feet away in a
small embankment. The 210-pound man with an athletic build hit
the ground head-first.
Bolewski, now 180 pounds,
remembers what crossed his mind after the accident.
"My first thought: I screwed up -
big time," he said. "I started thinking about my family and
survival. I wanted to make sure that I made it through because I
knew it was bad. When I was laying there, I couldn't move."
Carrie Porter's husband and
Bolewski's brother-in-law, Todd Porter, reached Bolewski just
after the crash. Porter, a Los Angeles city fire captain and
paramedic supervisor, delegated jobs to Bolewski's two sons and
his own 16-year-old son and immediately started applying aid to
Bolewski. About 45 minutes later, Bolewski was airlifted to the
Kern Medical Center trauma unit in Bakersfield.
Bolewski had suffered a fracture
to the fourth cervical vertebra, which paralyzed him from the
chest down to an unknown level. The impact of the crash also
cracked his helmet, crushing his nose, cheekbones and sinus
cavities and fracturing his skull, according to one of his
doctors and his family members. He underwent facial
reconstructive surgery while at Kern Medical Center, during
which time he suffered a collapsed lung and 106-degree fever. He
later contracted pneumonia.
"He kept coming back," his wife
said. "How many times I was at that bedside and they were
telling me it doesn't look good... His heart was not going to
stop."
Dr. Min-Ning Huang, a spinal chord
injury specialist at Rancho Los Amigos National Rehabilitation
Center, said Bolewski also suffered paralysis to his vocal
chords. Huang said that weakened his speaking abilities and
required him to get a tracheotomy, a surgery that creates an
opening in the windpipe.
Bolewski spent about a month at
Kern Medical Center. He then spent a few days at Valley
Presbyterian Hospital in Van Nuys, where Kim Bolewski works as a
surgical technician. Bolewski was then transferred to Barlow
Respiratory Hospital, also located on the Valley Presbyterian
Hospital grounds.
At Barlow Respiratory Hospital,
Bolewski was able to breathe without a ventilator. He later
moved to the Rancho Los Amigos National Rehabilitation Center in
Downey for about six weeks. There he worked on speech,
occupational and physical therapy, regaining some movement and
his ability to swallow soft foods.
Kim Bolewski took time off of work
and stayed by her husband's side for much of his four months in
the hospital.
She said he never gave up.
Instead, she stayed positive, making jokes and working hard at
his physical therapy. His key phrases became "Game on" and "It
is what it is."
"He was a hard worker before all
this, so he was going to fight it out no matter what here,
whatever we asked him to do," said Kristin McNealus, Bolewski's
physical therapist at the Rancho Los Amigos facility. She added
that, as a former athlete, Bolewski looked forward to doing his
arm weight training. "He was always going to give his all at
every session... He worked until he was completely tired."
Meanwhile, as Bolewski slowly
started his recovery process in the hospital, hundreds of people
were supporting him at home.
The support
Bolewski's injuries forced him to
retire early and shut down his business, Current Electrical
Services. The accident left his family in a flux, particularly
his wife, who worried about how to pay for medical expenses and
future physical therapy treatment, since her husband had limited
health insurance.
"You have to keep doing physical
therapy, otherwise your muscles will regress quickly, so he has
to keep it up," she said, adding that the fundraisers will go
toward those ongoing expenses. "I'm sure it'll take forever to
figure out and to find out how much we're going to have to pay.
I just know that Tom deserves to be at home and not [to] be in a
nursing home."
It was then that the family
decided they needed to raise funds for Bolewski. They called
together a meeting of family members, friends and neighbors and
brainstormed about what they could do. About 25 people showed
up, and together they thought of ideas - a poker night, a garage
sale, a community barbecue and concert in the park. Porter took
charge of the support group and helped organize the ideas, since
her sister was constantly with Bolewski.
"There's just a lot of people that
wanted to do something," Porter said. "We just felt we needed to
get all those people together quickly so we didn't lose the
momentum."
Little did Porter and the
Bolewskis realize just how much support they would receive over
the next few months. Neighbors cooked meals for the family and
gave the boys rides. The fundraising events started falling into
place, and Porter received calls from strangers who heard about
Tom and wanted to help.
"It's kind of amazing how far this
thing has really spread. So, now we're not stopping. The ball's
still rolling," Porter said.
Besides updating friends and
family through CarePages.com, a Web site that allows people to
post updates about sick or injured loved ones, the family also
created a separate Web site dedicated to event announcements at
Tomsrecovery.com.
One of the first major fundraisers
was a garage sale in April, organized by a neighbor, Irma Tamayo
advertised in local media for community members to donate items.
Tamayo said so many people contributed that she had enough items
to cover the driveways of eight houses.
"I way underestimated just how
much stuff we would get," Tamayo said.
"And just start to finish, I had
people coming that I never met before, people coming just to
give cash, people offering to help."
The garage sale raised about
$9,000 for Bolewski.
A Texas Hold'em poker tournament
in April organized by Steve McAfee, Bolewski's friend and the
owner of Line Drive Baseball Academy, raised another $21,000. A
barbecue and park concert held in May and organized by
Bolewski's next-door neighbor, Carlos Calvillo, attracted an
estimated 800 to 1,000 people, who purchased about 1,300 chili
dogs.
Joni Stiman, another one of
Bolewski's neighbors, said her students at Valencia High School
also got involved. Her peer counseling class decided to support
Bolewski by selling rubber bracelets that read "Tom's Current
Race." Students were soon wearing them all over campus,
according to Stiman.
"Tom just became a celebrity. [The
students] never met him. They had never seen him, most of them,
but they became concerned about somebody in their community,"
Stiman said. "Once I started to explain the story or tell the
story and once they got involved with it, they would just
randomly ask me, 'How's Tom doing?'"
Stiman would read the students
updates from the Bolewskis' Web sites.
While many students did not know
Bolewski, Stiman said others recognized him from his involvement
with sports activities. He used to coach soccer and football for
his sons' teams. Some parents knew him through his other links
he had in the community.
It was Bolewski's friendly
personality, Stiman said, that contributed to the community's
general readiness to support him.
"He just always would reach out
and always smile, and always make you happy," Stiman said. "He's
just that kind of guy, and I think that's why [there was] the
spirit that he would make it no matter what... All of us said if
there's anyone we know that could come out of this injury, it's
Tom."
Friends describe Bolewski as a
go-getter. Thomas Barron, president of the Santa Clarita Velo,
said Bolewski was a lead bicyclist in the club and an aggressive
downhill rider. He also wasn't one to let obstacles stand in his
way.
"He's one of the only guys I ever
knew that chased dogs," Barron said.
"The bane of bicyclists is having
a dog chase you. Well, Tom would turn and chase the dog back to
[its] house."
One thing Bolewski said he misses
the most is not being able to take part in his usual physical
activities.
Even though he was injured while
dirt biking, he does not blame the sport for what happened to
him.
"There wasn't really anything that
I could have done different," Bolewski said. "It's the kind of
accident or fall that just kind of goes along with the sport. It
happens to everybody. I just had the misfortune of hitting a
rock."
Bolewski is now receiving
in-patient physical therapy for two weeks at the Northridge
Hospital's rehabilitation center.
"He just called," Kim said. "He
can now lift his right knee off the bed."